January 28, 2011

Immeasurable Love of a Father to His Family

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Everyone I know wishes or aspires to have a comfortable life. The word comfortable connotes various meaning to every individual: from owning his own house and lot and sending his kids to a reputable school, to retiring at the age of 45 and living on interest. It could also be defined as having a dream business that will see through his needs and wants, or simply being able to eat three times a day with a roof above his head and having decent clothes to wear.

My youngest brother hopes for the same and he together with his wife thinks that an overseas employment will be the solution.

He works as a chef for Costa Cruise with a degree in culinary arts. Once on board, he busies himself in the kitchen- preparing, slicing, cutting, marinating, frying, sautéing, tossing for many months. No days off. He barely has time washing his own laundry he narrates and goes straight to bed after long grueling hours of working. He is ecstatic at the sound of his wife and children's voice when he makes long distance calls. The stories of how life is in the household complete his day. More so, cute and heart-warming antics of his daughter and achievements of his son from school described to him.

Love obviously conquers all difficulties and transforms one into a better, responsible, mature, steadfast, street-smart being. Thus, I remind myself that sacrifices play a huge role for dreams to materialize. It comes with hope which gives us the reason to continue and courage to move ahead when we are about to quit. It keeps you steadily going and brings light into the darkest of places. Love truly conquers all odds no matter how big the task is at hand!

Postscript:
Due to the chaos in Cairo, Egypt, his flight was canceled.

January 17, 2011

Handbook 2011

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This article was forwarded via email by my godmother, Tita Alice early this year. The thoughts are not new but provides insights to help you cope with life better. Have a blessed year ahead and may all your endeavors, aspirations and goals be easily achieved.

Health:
1. Drink plenty of water.
2. Eat breakfast like a king, lunch like a prince and dinner like a beggar.
3. Eat more foods that grow on trees and plants and eat less food that is manufactured in plants..
4. Live with the 3 E's -- Energy, Enthusiasm and Empathy
5. Make time to pray.
6. Play more games
7. Read more books than you did in 2010.
8. Sit in silence for at least 10 minutes each day
9. Sleep for 7 hours.
10. Take a 10-30 minutes walk daily. And while you walk, smile



Personality:

11. Don't compare your life to others. You have no idea what their journey is all about.
12. Don't have negative thoughts over things you cannot control. Instead invest your energy in the positive present moment.
13. Don't over do. Keep your limits.
14. Don't take yourself so seriously. No one else does.
15. Don't waste your precious energy on gossip.
16. Dream more while you are awake
17. Envy is a waste of time. You already have all you need..
18. Forget issues of the past. Don't remind your partner with His/her mistakes of the past. That will ruin your present happiness.
19. Life is too short to waste time hating anyone. Don't hate others.
20. Make peace with your past so it won't spoil the present.
21. No one is in charge of your happiness except you.
22. Realize that life is a school and you are here to learn. Problems are simply part of the curriculum that appear and fade away like algebra class but the lessons you learn will last a lifetime.
23. Smile and laugh more.
24. You don't have to win every argument. Agree to disagree...



Society:

25. Call your family often.
26. Each day give something good to others.
27. Forgive everyone for everything..
28. Spend time w/ people over the age of 70 & under the age of 6.
29. Try to make at least three people smile each day.
30. What other people think of you is none of your business.
31. Your job won't take care of you when you are sick. Your friends will. Stay in touch.


Life:
32. Do the right thing!
33. Get rid of anything that isn't useful, beautiful or joyful
34. GOD heals everything.
35. However good or bad a situation is, it will change..
36. No matter how you feel, get up, dress up and show up.
37. The best is yet to come..
38. When you awake alive in the morning, thank GOD for it.
39. Your Inner most is always happy. So, be happy.
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